Did you catch the last episode of Mrs. Maisel?📺 What it teaches us about order of death.

In the last episode of this season’s The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel (I promise this is not a spoiler), Miriam Maisel’s father, Abe, turns to his wife Rose and says in a very serious voice “I go first.” This is on account of their contemporary, Moishe, being hospitalized due to a heart attack.

As an estate lawyer, these three words, got me thinking. So many of my clients have an order of death in their heads that they assume will play out. But life is full of elements we cannot control and a proper estate plan must always consider multiple scenarios.

One of the benefits of working with an estate planning lawyer who focuses on this area is that we deal all too often with estates where the order of death that occurs was not adequately planned for. Where a son and mother die in quick succession before the first estate was settled. Where an adult child dies before their parent.

These are tragedies but all wills are not built alike. A properly drafted will provides for gift overs no matter the order of death and alternate named appointments for the estate trustee so that the estate runs as smoothly as possible and the family can focus on what is important.